I’ve never been out with anyone in my life.Not even those elementary pretend dating things.How long did it take to find your soul mate? And if you know in your heart that a certain somebody is the one,are they the one?

I met my soul mate when I was 21 (I’m 24 going on 25 in less than 2 months now)

I think that it’s hard to say that what feelings evoke from an attraction are without a doubt a tell-tale sign that a person is "the one"
It’s much more than just a physical attraction, or common interests. It’s bonding on a deep level (sorry if I sound like an eHarmony commercial)
It’s not being able to imagine your life without that other person in it. It’s knowing without a shred of doubt that this is the person you want to devote the rest of your life to loving.

That’s when you know they’re "THE ONE."

What if you meet someone that could be your soul mate and you date them and everything goes well, but you aren’t sure where you’re headed in life location and career wise. Do you think that there is a chance that you could somehow work everything out and be happy in the end?

I dont know if I have an answer but I wil try and help.I am 21 and my fiance is 19. we met 3 years ago and have been together ever since. we are still very young and that problem has came about a few times. and it is hard. But you have to just sit down and talk and figure out what the other wants to do with there life. and then take all of what you talk about and try to put the puzzle together and if it fits, turn that puzzle into a plan. The first thing I recomend Is COLLEGE COLLEGE COLLEGE, dont try a first relationship with the possible ONE without a career and all that cause money problems and stuff make it ten times worse. Both of you go to same college. thats what im doing, be supportive of other career thoughts and ideas. But the main thing is express to one another how you feel and if that feeling is strond enough between the both of you and you love each other then you have won half the battle. then you have to have a plan and stick to it. TAKE IT SLOW!!! good luck hope for the best for the both of you !

There is a common misconception that the hardest part of a relationship is finding your soul mate. Not true! The hard work starts once you have found and committed to that person. Once the ‘honeymoon’ period is over in a relationship it requires you to make a choice to continue to build into the relationship and keep the magic alive.

If your relationship is based on a strong friendship and you have common interests you have something that you can work with straight away. Keeping the magic alive in a relationship needs to be intentional. Take time to think about and plan activities that you can do together to reconnect.

Below is a list of activities that you can do daily, weekly, monthly and once a year to keep the magic alive in your relationship.

Take time each day to show your affection for each other. Take time to touch and tell your partner that you love them. Find something about your day that makes you both laugh.

Once a week do something active that lifts your spirits, go for a walk together and spend time discussing your week. Organise a regular date night with your partner. Boost your partner’s self esteem by encouraging them. Write them a note or a card expressing your love and appreciation for them.

Monthly, take time to clear the air of damaging emotions and start fresh in your relationship. Intentionally focus on intimacy. In long term relationships where intimacy is not the priority of both partners in the relationship it can become stale and cause problems if you do not take time to intentionally focus on it.

Once a year in your relationship review your top ten highlights together and in your individual lives. This will reconnect you with your partner on your journey through life. Share your victories and your struggles. Take time to chart the course for the coming year. Set goals together and plan your future.

When you choose to intentionally spend time on your relationship you will reap the rewards. Anything worth doing in life is worth working for and having happy relationships is the key to happiness in life.  

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If you can put a tick next to each of the items in the following list you will know "Who is My Soul Mate"

• When you’re strongly attracted to each other physically.
• When you’re strongly attracted to each other’s personalities.
• When you have common interests.
• When you share the same values.
• When you have major respect for one another.
• When you have met someone who makes you feel truly special and worthy.
• When you have met someone who puts in a great effort to show you their passion for you and the things that are important in your life.
• When you meet on the same emotional levels.

The most important thing in any new relationship is to determine if the person you are seeing is being vulnerable and real with you. The Key is to build a friendship first then take it slow and observe how things are going. See if this person, who seems to be perfect in every way, continues to exhibit these qualities that you first admired in them as the relationship grows and proceeds. Having a solid friendship first will build a great foundation in your relationship and you will be able to withstand the any bumps and knocks that come your way.

If you want more details on how you can attract the ideal soul mate check out my book "How to find Your Soul Mate Without Even Looking" by clicking Soul Mate. It will inspire you to take action in your own life which will in turn result in the meeting of your soul mate…Enjoy the journey!

Are you are seeking your Christian Soul Mate using online dating? The dream of discovering your lifelong Christian Soul mate can turn into a reality. The key is to not get worried or disheartened if your Christian soul mate is not found within the first few months.

If you want to find a genuine Christian Soul Mate to spend quality time with you need to be completely open and honest about yourself, your desires, your dreams, your values and what you want out of the experience.  Also be on the look out for the qualities you want in a Christian soul mate.

God designed real and lasting love to be something
you do, not something you magically have. Therefore Finding a Christian soul mate probably won’t happen on the first day and I would be worried if you thought you could. Finding your Christian soul mate is a journey and one that should be cherished and enjoyed and used for God’s glory. 

God has a perfect mate for you and will help you find them.  He will lead you in the right direction for the Christian soul mate you have been searching for… Maybe He will lead you online…. Meeting your soul mate online is now regarded as an acceptable method of meeting your potential Christian soul mate.

The little known secret to becoming Christian soul mates is to pursue shared relationship with God. Couples who are Christian soul mates get that way because they deliberately choose to go deeper in their relationships with God and each other.

"Many movies, TV shows, and fairy tales tell us that we’re each fated to be with one person — our "soul mate" — and that finding that person is the ultimate goal of dating.

This has resulted in – The search to

Find Out Who Your Soul Mate Is

is fast becoming an obsession with many people.  Its sole reason being that they are convinced that finding their soul mate will lead to as yet  undreamed of happiness and personal fulfillment. The good news is that  Finding out who your Soul Mate is does not have to be a dream that is rarely fulfilled.

 Some believe that a soul mate is someone with whom a person has shared other life times through reincarnation. People are missing some essential information that will help them succeed in dating, relationships and in finding out who their soul mate is. A Soul mates doesn’t mean you have to have the same b’day,the same personalities or blah blah blah…(how boring would that be?)

To Find out who your soul mate is, is actually easier than you think…. If you’re willing to prepare yourself, on all levels, to become a magnet for love.

Hint: Looking for love before developing a strong sense of self is like trying to find the mate of a shoe you’ve never seen.  Hint: Be wary of looking for a mate who is ideal and who feels and thinks exactly the way you do.

 Our soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction.  You know you would like to fall in love safely and securely with someone who shares the same interests and values as you do.  You want someone you can connect with on a deeper level, someone you can give yourself to and feel confident that they cared about who you really are.

 Finding out who my soul mate was, was a Godsend to me.  A soul mate should accept who you are, bring out the best in you, challenge you, and be your best friend. Wishing you great success in finding out who your soul mate is as quickly as possible.