Comments on: why are men who give dating advice to men to avoid gold diggers etc considered MISOGYNIST by women?

By: David Huter

David Huter — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 07:02:14 +0000

Even though you make a valid point I am afraid that I must disagree.It's true though. Girlfriend Dating

By: H5

H5 — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 03:15:59 +0000

I think they’re only called misogynistic when they start saying most women are gold diggers or making offensive comments like that…

Or something else that is quite rude or insults the intelligence of women.

I tend to avoid "dating experts" though, male or female.
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By: Pottymouth

Pottymouth — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 02:57:59 +0000

Because you guys ARE misogynists and the only thing you guys are expert at is projection, denial and blame. That and flipping patties at your McJob.

Misogyny is a mental and social disease. Not all men suffer from the disease.

MANY of the behaviors associated with anti-feminists are misogynistic and emotionally disturbed, not to be taken as representative of most normal healthy men. In fact, what law inforcement agencies, Universities, airlines, banks, etc. invested in research to reduce domestic terrorism and mass shootings find as a commonality among all serial killers and school / mall shooters is Internet misogynistic postings. The FBI, in a report about school shooters, which is pretty much an exclusive boy’s club like serial killing, compiled a list of indicators for a potential school or mass shooter and these behaviors are actually expressed constantly here in YA Answers by anti-feminists:

Low Tolerance for Frustration
Poor Coping Skills
Lack of Resiliency
Failed Love Relationship
Injustice Collector
Signs of Depression
Narcissism
Alienation
Dehumanizing Others
Lack of Empathy
Exaggerated Sense of Entitlement
Attitude of Superiority
Exaggerated or Pathological Need for Attention
Externalizes Blame
Masks Low Sel-Esteem
Anger Management Problems
Intolerance
Inappropriate Humor
Seeks to Manipulate Others
Lack of Trust
Closed Social Group
Rigid and Opinionated
Unusual Interest in Sensational Violence
Fascination with Violence-Filled Entertainment
Negative Role Models (such as D ick Matherson or Warren Farrell)
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http://www.fbi.gov

By: Feminist Defense

Feminist Defense — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 02:35:59 +0000

First let me say how FINE Amanda looks in her pic.

Secondly in answer to your question:

"Because you can’t get a woman to sleep with you"
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By: katrissa2000

katrissa2000 — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 01:49:59 +0000

you should use that debate on a first date! if she gets pissed off, shes a gold digger, if she's like hey, gold diggers are a waste of space she's a keeper!
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By: amanda

amanda — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 01:23:59 +0000

I’ve seen some men’s "dating advice" things like that, and remember finding that most of the advice the men writing them give is bad or terribly inaccurate for a majority of us… they were funny. Some things would actually only be accurate for a woman a guy shouldn’t want to date in the first place.

Telling someone to avoid gold-diggers is not misogynist. The funny part though, is if a woman wants a guy who has a lot of casual sex, doesn’t commit, and has all kinds of women all over him, is probably the same kind of woman who likes a guy with money too.
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